There is a complexity to women that baffles the average guy. So, This is going to sound totally insane, but trust me it’s not. During not so pleasant times she will either strive to maintain the relationship or begin looking for greener pastures.
If you’re tired of dealing with the awful emotions that come with the feelings of being cheated on, you need to create some competition. The point here is that you have to pay attention to her behavior.
I’ve watched her go through all of the phases I went through when I was freshly out of a long-term relationship: thinking about dating; dating; embarking on a dating freeze; swearing off dating forever, with and without a solemn oath; and trying on every state in between.
This means you go out, flirt and play, make out, muck around, and not even think twice about getting in trouble. If she’s seeing other guys, it means she’ll be far less needy and demanding.
You’ll have more freedom to do what you want, when you want, and be able to see her when you want to, rather than when she calls. If you’re also seeing other people, it won’t matter if she can’t see you because you’ll have other things to occupy your time with.
Partly because I was terrified of losing her, but also because I wanted to see just how it would play out.
I’d spent all my time up until that point in exclusive, monogamous relationships and thought that was the way to go.